Well, this is definitely a less-fun topic to discuss than all the previous ones but I think it’s an important topic none-the-less. If you were watching Channel 7 News Nightside on Thursday, July 10th you saw the story I did on infertility. Well, that story had a lot of personal meaning because my husband and I were also patients at Arkansas Fertility Clinic. We had tried for about two years to have a baby and had gone through seven failed insemination procedures. In January, we decided to take a break before starting the In Vitro Fertilization process. And that’s when we got pregnant!!! It really was unbelievable. No drugs... no procedures. Even our doctor, Doctor Fransisco Batres, said we must have had a little help from above!
I wanted to share our story because I think it can give others hope. After being diagnosed with “medical infertility” it was so hard to remain hopeful but I’m so glad we did!
Thanks for all your support!
Update:
Thanks so much for all the comments! It is so good to hear from others who have been in the same situation. I love hearing the successful adoption stories too. We actually strongly considered adoption (my husband was adopted) but the high price of private adoption agencies made us look for other options. So we attended an informative meeting by The CALL (Children of Arkansas Loved for a Lifetime) and had planned to pursue getting certified to become adoptive parents. But that was right around the time we found out we were pregnant! However that’s definitely something we may do someday. I just think it’s so important for people to know that there are many options out there for those who want to become parents.
Thanks for all the well-wishes and prayers… you all will be in my prayers as well!
Good Luck and Congrats!!!
suzzanna
I must say that you have been hiding your pregnancy well. I am currently due around the same time you are, and my husband noticed you were pregnant before I did. I have a 4 year old son named David, and a girl on the way. I like biblical names with special meanings. To me a name is much more special when it means something. I am 25 weeks pregnant myself with my first girl, so I know what you are going through. I think it is neat that we are having our girls around the same time. Best of luck to you! I know you will be a great mom!
I am so happy for you and your husband and know you will make amazing parents. When you go through what we have to have a child you appreciate so much everything about the pregnancy and every little moment with that child.
God bless your family!
Brandi
I really do appreciate you sharing your story. Like you, my husband and I have also been trying to have a baby for the past 3 or 4 years. About two years ago, I became pregnant, but almost 3 months into the pregnancy I had a miscarriage. We've been leary about seeing a fertility specialist for help (for fear of having multiple babies, increased risks, etc.). But, after reading about your experience it has really encouraged me to remain hopeful and prayerful.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Tonya
Christy Barnett
And to encourage you in case you want more... when our IUI baby was seven-and-a-half months old, I got pregnant with no medical intervention. I tell people all the time, "I'm proof that previous infertility and exclusive breastfeeding are NOT birth control." Our 2nd child is 16-months younger than her older sister. And 10 days before #2's birthday - I found out I was pregnant again! After not being able to GET pregnant, I suddenly couldn't STOP! (how's that for God's sense of humor?). I had three children in 35 months! And then...just five months ago...had baby #4. Yes, four babies in five years -- two of them after the age of 40, three of them without medical intervention.
I missed Eloise on GMA (love her!) - but wanted to let you know 2 things I recommend for your baby registry -- a Medela Pump In Style if you're going to breastfeed and a Graco SafeSeat car seat plus an extra base. The SafeSeat is the only carseat on the market engineered to be rear facing for children up to 30 pounds and 32 inches. My 2.5 year old could still be rear-facing if I had this seat for her! (it's what we have for the baby) The Quattro Tour Deluxe Travel System with SafeSeat is the Travel System (stroller + car seat) that has the SafeSeat as the car seat. Rear facing as long as possible is proving to be safer -- keep 'em backwards as long as you can!
I also recommend the book "Your Baby's First Year Week by Week" by Glade Curtis - it gives milestones your baby will likely be hitting each week and fun little activities you can do with your little one that go along with her milestones and encourage her development. It's wonderful and informative without talking down to you. I've used it with all four of my kiddos.
I know what a treasure your little girl will be to you because of all you've gone through to have her. I look forward to the announcement on KATV that she is here, healthy and safe!
GRATEFUL, Glenda Sollis Hot Springs National Park, AR
God Bless You!!!