Hi again!
Well, I am about to start my 35th week of pregnancy! It’s really hard to believe, it’s gone by so fast. But we are so excited and feeling more ready as we get closer.
So I am now in process of getting everything ready for the big day. My question to all of you mothers and fathers out there is… what should we pack in our hospital bag? I’ve got several checklists but I want to hear from those who have been there and get some real advice about what we may or may not need.
So send me your suggestions!
We also will be putting our car seat base into our car (just in case). Wish us luck on that!
By the way, I still hope to get some pictures of our nursery posted here… just haven’t gotten around to it yet.
Thanks for checking in!!!
You're going to have enough laundry to do once you get home - wear the hospital's gowns. Though unlike most of us, you'll have a cameraman in your room at some point so I might take something to wear when the cameraman comes, but outside of that, let Baptist/Doctors/UAMS do the laundry.
I disagree with those who say take your own pads. You're going to be bleeding like you've never bled before - you'll NEED those huge things for a few days, at least.
Here's what I have taken in my "delivery/recovery" bag: The camera - with fully charged battery The video camera - with fully charged battery The footprints page if there is one in your baby book and the "visitors" page Carmex, because I'm an addict Hard candy because that's all I could have for 12 hours post-partum The who-to-call list The "scorecard" (my husband used it to write down all the baby's vitals so he'd have it on hand when making the "Baby's Here" calls) Fully charged cell phone/Blackberry and the charger a robe and slippers for walking while in labor my journal, so I could journal the baby's birth story as soon as I was in recovery - it is amazing how much detail you forget so quickly
Things that came to my room after I was out of recovery: My own pillow in a RED pillowcase (so as not to ever be confused with the hospital's laundry) the Boppy nursing pillow My makeup/toiletries bag
Things that stayed in the car until it was time to come home: My going home outfit The baby's going home outfit The car seat (UAMS requires that the baby be strapped into the "baby bucket" before leaving the unit - not sure what Baptist/Doctors require)
My husband had his own bag and it held: The t-shirt and PJ pants he slept in his slippers a ton of snacks He went home each day to shower/shave, etc. so he didn't need a change of clothes
A notebook is good to keep track of visitors and gifts that are brought to the hospital.
Good luck!
Take an outfit for you and the baby to go home in. Comfortable, but cute for pictures! I didn't wear makeup for days, which is TOTALLY unlike me, but I didn't care!
My best advice, make sure someone is there to take pictures. You and your husband will be so busy that it just sort of flies by and I regret not having someone to take more pictures when my daughter was initially born and some leaving the hospital, arriving home, etc. We have none of those types of pictures!! Best of luck to you! Most importantly, cherish every moment, it goes by in the blink of an eye. All that "Hurry up and wait" for the baby to be here totally disappears into time flying by and you wanting it to SLOW down!!!
You need to take nightgown, robe and slippers. Going home clothes for both you and the baby, diapers and wipe. Receiving blanket, car seat.
Your make up bag with tooth brush and such.
Good luck, we listen to you everyday.
You are goingto laugh...Jason and I are in the NUTCRACKER party scene...I can NOT dance!
My 40th b-day is the 28th of October so maybe you will have the baby then...then Colette would be a great name!
Take Care,
The Pascos
One of the best things we did was taking Thank You notes with us -- I could work on them after guests came. Our twins are 17 months old now and as I look back there is no way I could have kept up once we got home !!!
If you haven't already, I would highly advise pre-registration at your hospital. If you end up in the Labor/Delivery in the wee hours of the morning, the last thing you want to deal with is answering the endless list of questions !!! These worked for me !!
Good luck to you !!
I'm willing to bet your to the point where your nerves are kicking in. I spent the month before my due date worried about how it would feel when my water broke and how much an epidural would hurt! Let me assure you for me (with a major fear of needles and a low threshold for pain) that it wasn't that bad. Other mothers had me completely freaked out. I spent all day in labor at home 45 minutes from my hospital before anybody realized i was in labor.
When it came to packing my slight ocd kicked in hard. I was asking my husband at month 7 if we should put my bag in the car just in case anything unexpected happen and i made him strap the carseat in months ahead of time. My original due date was August 20, 2006 then with first ultrasound it changed to the 23rd and with the second it changed back but wasn't noted on my chart. My son was born at 9p.m on August 17. He had a mind of his own. And i was WAY overpacked.
Here are my suggestions. Definitley put the car seat in the car. Make sure it sets at the right angle. We discovered when we left the hospital that it was too upright and our baby boys head was bent funny. I made hubby pull over and luckily i had carried and extra pillow with me which we used under the base to adjust the seat. Toys R Us has a special styrofoam roll for this, but a pillow or rolled up towel works great as well.
Take a roll of quarters or baggie of change. This was great for drinks and snacks for family more than for me. By the time i delivered we were all starving and i had plenty of change for my husband and my thirsty friend who had been in the room to take pictures of my newborn.
a change of clothes for hubby if we won't be leaving ur side.
a nightgown that's easy for nursing (if you are going to breastfeed) and that makes you feel great.
comfy clothes to wear home for you.
cute outfit for baby, blanket,
i highly recommend a good chapstick for you. I had a vaseline based one and i ended up smearing a little on my sons lips too because they became so dry and cracked looking. I noticed that there is a baby lip balm now that dr. bordeaux (the butt paste maker) makes.
if ur nursing! nursing pads and bra. i had also packed a book for me, a book for hubby, and a deck of cards. We never touched them! We didn't have the time. When the baby wasn't in the room we were sleeping and he was pretty much always in the room. i guess they would have been good if i hadn't had a quick delivery, but they really just weighed down my bag.
I also had packed my hair dryer and makeup and all those beauty essentials so i'd look good in pics. HA!!!
i ended up showering and pulling my wet hair into a bun, and never putting on a stitch of makeup. And i don't think my hospital photos are that bad. I was a new mommy happy and in love with my precious little boy who needed makeup and hair dryers. They just took up valuable space.
Oh and i highly recommend having everything ready to go! My sis in law had her baby a month early this summer. She wasn't packed and didn't have the carseat in the car. So we were running like mad to get her everything she needed.
I fully intend to be over prepared for my second delivery as well as my first!
Good luck with urs i hope everything goes extremely well and easy as possible!
HAVE A PEDICURE AND YOUR NAILS DONE JUST BEFORE YOU GO TO THE HOSPITAL YOUR TOES AND NAILS WILL BE SHOWING VERY OFTEN AND YOU WANT THEM TO LOOK CUTE!!
A CAMERA IS A MUST!! INVEST IN A DIGITAL CAMERA IF YOU HAVE NOT ALL READY IT IS WORTH IT. PICTURES SAY A THOUSAND WORDS
CHAP STICK OR LIP GLOSS!! I DONE WHAT IT IS ABOUT THE HOSPITAL YOUR LIPS GET SO CHAPPED!!
JOHNSON AND JOHNSON BABY LOTION I JUST LOVE THE SMELL!! IT IS NOTHING LIKE PICKING UP A BABY AND SMELLING THAT LOTION.
BRINGS CLOTHES TO DRESS HER IN. IT IS SO FUN!!
HAVE HER A CAP MONOGRAMMED WITH HER NAME ON IT. IT IS SO CUTE!!! AT THE HOSPIAL THEY WANT THE BABY TO WEAR A CAP. PLEASE DO THIS BECAUSE IT IS SO CUTEEEEEEEE!!!! BESURE TO TAKE A PICTURE ALSO.
LUWANNA WHITE HALL, AR
Thanks so much for keeping us posted thru-out your prenancy. I agree with another comment that I read. You have been just radiant during your prenancy and I have enjoyed reading your blog so much. I read the comments and sounds like everyone just about has it covered about what you need to take to the hospital. Something I didn't read was that you may want to take a cozy blanket for you from home that you like to snuggle with. Can't wait to see that beautiful baby girl. The big day will be here before you know it. Be blessed during your labor and I will be praying for you because I'm sure we will be hearing it from your channel 7 family.
Mother
Blow dryer Hair ties Shampoo Brush Shower gel Make-up Loose clothes to come home in Underware Bras Gown & Robe SOCKS...really important
Baby
Clothes for hospital (most hospitals let you dress baby as you like) Outfit to come home in Booties Onsies Diapers Burp clothes Brush & Bows since your having a girl! Blankets Diapers
Take a small spiral notebook that you can write down gifts and who they are from -- also good to have handy to write down questions you think of to ask a nurse or doctor since they aren't right there when you think of something you'd like to ask. I also wrote down some of the "facts" so I wouldn't forget them -- ever. I let people write messages in it too like their first impression of the baby, etc. It's a keepsake in itself and you can continue to use it when you get home to journal how you're feeling about being a mom. Good luck! Enjoy it all!!!!
In your hospital bag, be sure and put loose fitting garments for the ride home. Your camera should also be included.
Don't be offended as you find out you are no longer Christine - you are just the MOTHER of a beautiful baby.
Best wishes on your staring role as a MOM.
for you PJ's, you don't have to wear the hospital gown the whole time. slippers make up toothbrush, toothpaste hair brush your fav body wash and shampoo, deodrant (hospitals to have these things, but they don't smell as nice) if you wear contacts bring your solution and holder, glasses CAMERA!! snacks you like
these are things I see people forgetting most often.
for you PJ's, you don't have to wear the hospital gown the whole time. slippers make up toothbrush, toothpaste hair brush your fav body wash and shampoo, deodrant (hospitals to have these things, but they don't smell as nice) if you wear contacts bring your solution and holder, glasses CAMERA!! snacks you like
these are things I see people forgetting most often.
Best of luck with the big day. I came across your blog by complete accident while doing some research on AllBritton. That being said, I wanted to pass along a good "real life advice" reference-site that might add to some of the suggestions you get and things you bring. And yes, I'll come completely clean - it's where I work (which makes this terrible, terrible blog etiquette - apologies, I know!). Certainly feel free to moderate this comment out, no worries. But do check the site - whathappensnow. You'll find some lists & info as submitted by lots of moms/dads under Life/Birth section. I hope it helps -
Good Luck!
CAMERA!!
this is a small list of things people usually forget:)
Be sure to bring your baby book. They will stamp the baby's feet for you baby book. It is also fun to fill out while you are at the hospital.